Personally I have a rule that I will not enter a relationship with a believing Mormon. So I am always alone,our communication is not fully connected, he has no time to talk everything with me, causing a lot of misunderstanding. I have had to compromise more often than I would have liked. If they are, run to the altar, in or out of the temple. I made the decision not to have those things when I married a non-member. I've decided not to mention the CES letter or anything that could be considered "anti-mormon.
And depending on his views of the Sabbath, you will probably get the tug of war on Sundays. We've been going on dates and acting somewhat "couple-ish" for a few months but haven't assigned any labels to our relationship. The views expressed herein do not necessarily represent the position of the Church. I think it's very helpful that I wasn't nearly as busy for most of our relationship thus farwe got engaged before I got absurdly busy and so it's not like we weren't extremely close. And after dating a few months we both knew we wanted to get married. You could even pass it off as you investigating the church and you stumnled accross these essays on lds.
Amasa enjoys art, music, and traveling. The yard stick he uses to assess what is "normal" is so warped that he has lost touch with what a happy life could look like he often berates himself for feeling so miserable given how "easy" his schedule is at just 65 hours a week, not like surgery or some other 80 hour a week speciality. Also don't ask questions that are too intrusive, or those that you would not like to answer yourself.
There are some gems like admission to peep stone in a hat translation to the book of Mormon and angels with swords commanding polygamy, but if someone believes Joseph Smith really did stuff his face into a hat and translate scriptures about ancient jews coming to America, it means they are insane, and you can't reason with an insane person. And most of those end up with both people losing their faith or a divorce. Now those are not the problems in my head anymore, whats in my head is how arewe goin to deal with this, ive told her sometimes u wont have anytime for me nor for your kids if we decide to have kids you wont be at the holidays nothing like that and she is always tryin to see everything positive and tells me dont worry ill schedule myself, and im like baby you will not be able to schedule urself your life would be in a hospital.